men are from mars...a very dirty and disorganized place apparently

My husband swears that he can get nothing done with the baby at home during the day.

poppycock.

So far this morning I have done everything I asked him to do this week - and its only noon! The baby has been asleep for an hr, and I have worked out 30min, started some laundry, did the dishes, followed up on work emails and had a quick bowl of cheerios.
In addition to that, I sorted out the stuff that didn't fit him and packed it, and changed out the crib sheet (quite a process) while he played on the floor. Then we picked up his toys and put all the laundry away.

I know what you're thinking - that's ALL you asked him to do for a week?! well, he does do the dishes.

men are hopeless.
(actually, if you're currently single - be prepared. men "forget" how to take care of themselves, and then they do things wrong intentionally so that you won't ask them to do it again...its clever because they win -no matter what he's capable of, you would rather do it than have them do it wrong!)